You are different: so is your partner
What is more stressful – losing a job or losing a job while being in a relationship? When you are on your own, you deal with your problems in a certain way. It’s different when you are married or is in a relationship. Oftentimes stress is about responsibility and commitment in a relationship. Other times you keep wondering where this relationship is going. You understand that you are different, but most of the times forget that the same is applicable to your partner also. What looks best for you may not always work right for your partner. As a first step, quit being forceful about things to happen your way because you think it is the right way.
Being indifferent in a relationship – is the damage done?
So, communication or expressing feelings with each other becomes important and it can help build successful relationships. Anger is still one way of expressing one’s feelings but by negatively impacting the partner. Disagreements and arguments are also a part of successful marriage. Couples can maintain a relationship even with less communication for a long time. Fights over lack of trust also indicate that partners are still concerned and may get back on track after getting some help. But, being indifferent about each other’s emotions pose a higher risk in the failure of relationships.
When there are no feelings attached to each others behaviour, a relationship ends there even if both continue to live together. So, when is the right time to talk about it to others and seek help? It’s when you think that things are getting out of hand or not taking shape in spite of your efforts. If you see signs that your relationship is falling apart. And you want to avoid getting into situations where partners show total disregard for each other feelings, it’s time to take steps.Are you struggling to avoid conflicts? Take initial steps now! Click To Tweet
So, what are some steps that can help? Maintaining a good friends circle and spending time with them can be helpful. Taking advice from friends or relatives is a good option, but remember that a solution that worked for them may not always be the right one for you. Developing good communication skills or improving listening skills can work magic in relationships if you are dealing with certain problems. Being appreciative of the other person’s success and expressing concerns over loss or failure helps couples to not reach that stage where there is no concern for each other’s feelings. When things are not working out, taking counselling sessions can be of great help. It is sometimes hard for your friends or family to help you with your relationship problems. Experienced psychologists can pitch in here and help in identifying the root cause of the problems.When people are different, their problems are different. So, why should solutions be 'one size fits all'? Click To Tweet
Relationships are different, so when your friends advise you to apply common sense solutions, it may not always work for you. Psychologists generally use different methods to get to know and help in solving your problems. But, choosing your psychologist can be a challenge especially if you have to go to a hospital or clinical setting. Your convenience and also the availability of counsellors are other factors that play a role here. Chat with us to find out more about choosing a counsellor online [Chat now!]
The online advantage – At eYogi.in, we use various scientific counselling techniques which involve problem-solving, providing support and guidance, helping clients in identifying emotions that are unhelpful etc. A client who approaches us with a problem will be directed to the best available counsellor who can use the right technique which is best fit for that situation. We do this by utilising the collective knowledge and learning of all our counsellors through our platform, all without compromising on confidentiality of clients. So, your problem is not handled based on just one person’s judgement. We make it a point to ensure that we have a right mix of counsellors who know how to handle various problems with their experience, expertise and training that we provide. We can also provide references to other medical facilities or clinics to ensure clients problems are solved or taken care if we cannot handle them.